Letting go of a person you loved deeply and married is never an easy thing to do. That is why when my ex-husband and I decided to call it quits, I wanted us to have a divorce process as smooth as possible. We have been together all throughout college and our world revolved around each other. Somewhere down the line, though, we just could not see each other eye to eye anymore. What we build and shared was something we would never have the heart to just throw away just like that. Luckily, right before I hired a divorce attorney, I read about New York divorce mediation. I am so thankful I saw it when I ran a search tips for people who are going through divorce online. I contacted the number that was flashing on the website right away to find our more about the service. A divorce mediator entertained my call. He enlightened me on their process, including what differentiates them from an actual divorce litigation. These divorce mediators are approved by the court and provide a fast and non-traumatic separation. New York divorce mediation saved us from all the pains I hear from my divorced friends all the time. Today, my ex-husband and I still remain good friends.